From the perspective of exhaustion and confusion, it is
intelligent to seek relief from the uncertainty and replace the groundlessness
with something more stable. Honor the call to safe passage and something to
hold onto. You need not pathologize the longing for solid ground from which to
orient and take your next step. It is an act of kindness to practice self-care,
to slow down, to weave a new story, and to soothe an overstimulated nervous
system.
From the perspective of raw, reorganizing love,
groundlessness and aliveness are one, for there is no life without embodiment
to the flow of vulnerability in all its forms. Here, there is nothing to hold
onto, no solid reference points to take refuge in, nothing to heal, and nothing
to transform. There is no possibility of an “incomplete” moment and your
experience is the expression of wisdom: naked, open, and pure as it is.
While the mind may spin in the attempt to resolve this
mystery, this conundrum is sacred and has been placed inside you not to be
solved with an answer but to be lived as a question. The relief and rest you
are longing for may never be found within the field of conceptual resolution
but only by way of intimacy with the contradictions as they dance in and around
you.
