You never know what form love will choose to take in the future, for there is no love in the future. Love is only now. You will never be able to resolve or pin down the movement of love as it is infinitely creative and at all times unfolding into greater wholeness and cohesion.
If you become too fused with a specific form you believe you need love to take, your heart will always break when love obliterates that form for something new, which it always will.
Before you seek to ‘heal’ your heartbreak via spiritual process, turn into it and ask if your heart truly wishes to be mended. For this breaking is sacred and is the activity of a special envoy of the beloved, sent from the unseen to dissolve old dreams… so that new forms may emerge.
Be grateful for the forms of love while they appear, but allow them their own organic process of death and rebirth. Seek refuge not in love’s forms, but in the field of love itself, that which never comes and goes. For this is what you are.